u/Proper-Excitement998

I was thinking about how when you’re getting to know a guy, guys always ask you to send them nudes. Every guy I’ve ever been involved with has asked me. And each time I wonder why they ask? Like I’m never, in the middle of a convo, thinking “I should ask to see this person’s nudes” because it’s just not what I’m thinking about? I am never sitting there and suddenly say “I want to see this guy nude” Is that unusual? I know everyone will have a different sex drive but I wonder if sometimes I’m a bit less interested in initiating those conversations or shifting over into those sexual moments. Of course if I’m interested in a guy I consider being sexually attracted to them, but I don’t think that is something that is a strong thought in my head upfront. It usually would come a bit after really getting to know someone and developing deeper feelings that I’m really thinking it’s time to introduce intimacy and sex.