Does anyone else ever feel jealous of allo love stories sometimes?
Basically, what the title says. Almost everyone I have personally asked about their current relationships has a story that goes along the lines of "I met them, we started talking, 2 weeks later we started dating, and within the next month we were official" or something else that's based off of initial (or, very very quick) attraction. I mean, given my current heartbreak over unreciprocated love for my friend of 3 years, I can't help but feel like being able to just "meet someone" and almost immediately hit it off makes dating 10x easier. Even if their relationships don't last, I feel like allos would have a much easier time getting into newer ones, as they don't have to wait months/years to feel any attraction in the first place.
Plus, while searching for tips on how to get over my heartbreak, a sizeable amount of the stories went, "I was heartbroken until I met my fiancé 3 months later". Like, okay. Prince Charming came to save you. I don't mean to sound inconsiderate here but I can't help but be jealous, man 😭😭... I've been heartbroken for 11 months at this point and it's literally impossible for some other guy to "sweep me off my feet" and take the pain away since I can't feel any initial attraction like that.
So yeah. What do you guys think?