u/PreviousSecret8421

Why do women leave me before 3 months?

Hello so I am 27 and 3 years ago made a pact with myself to never watch porn or any suggestive videos again and have been successful. I deleted all social media besides Reddit and YouTube. To be quite honest we never know when we are going to die. Through this experience I have been chasing many girls once giving this up. I never bring it up (sex) but most the time it always leads to it after the first date. I absolutely love that, but every time the relationship always seems to fizzle out before 3 months. I feel like girls use me to get over their ex to be quite honest or just for a good time. That is fine; however, do women only cut you off fully when they find a new man? Maybe because I am unserious they look for someone serious? I don’t know it would be nice though to have one friends with benefits and stop having to start over all the time. After these relationships end I am always so tempted to download a new app, but I never want to turn to videos again. Any advice would be appreciated so the relationship does not fizzle out and I lose someone who trauma dumped on me. I considered them great friends and always made sure they were taken care of, but I can’t say they felt the same or maybe only found someone new or get bored I guess. Had to repost this since it was removed for not having question in title, but my main question is since we had sex on the first date does that mean they take me as someone unserious even though I pay for dates and do fun activities?

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u/PreviousSecret8421 — 18 hours ago