u/PrettyGirlsH8Plebbit

I don't mean this to sound rude, but when I hear about women in rough marriages, I always wonder if I'd be capable of catching those red flags before I tied the knot. Is it a matter of men lying and keeping secrets until they have you pinned down? Do they change for the worse? Or do some women just struggle to see the bad in their fiancee until its too late?

Would like to hear your stories. Positive changes are worth sharing as well.