u/PrestigiousCarrot518

My mom and I had a argument back in January because she does approve of my boyfriend or me having a relationship with my father. I am 22 years old, yet while living at home, she was policing every part of my life, including who I speak to, how often I can go out, how many hours I can work etc. I have another reddit post on my page explaining the situation further.

So, one day she began screaming at me for having a relationship with my father (he primarily raised me in my childhood and did so much for me) purely because they are divorced and she does not like him. I just about had it at that point and when she went to work that day, I packed some of my belongings and booked it and have been staying with my partner for the past 2.5 months (which has been lovely btw and he has been so supportive!)

anyways, she has been telling my whole family that I ran away for no reason, that me leaving made her sick and she almost had to go to the hospital, etc. she texted in a family group chat (with me in it lol) that i can’t even be bothered to pick up the rest of my things from her home.

so last week i asked her if i could pick up my things. i was open to having a respectful but distant relationship with her. she agreed and i was supposed to pick my belongings up today. last night she texted me a bunch of messages and TLDR she is not letting me come anymore. i attached messages for all the context if you’re interested in reading.

i need to get my belongings. i have my birth certificate, ss card, my college graduation gown which i need next month LOL, a lot of sentimental stuff. i don’t know how to get it all back. we don’t have a lot of relatives around here so there’s no one i could go with. i thought about requesting civil standby but i dont know if she’d open the door and maybe that would just make her more upset. she just threatened to throw away all my stuff i dont know what to do :’)

** also her first language isnt english, so its kind of hard to read some of her messages i apologize😭