Stay in NYC or go back to GA?
Hey everyone, I really need some honest advice.
I’m currently stuck between staying in New York City with my dad’s side of the family or going back to University of North Georgia where I’m already enrolled.
A little background—I’ve had some issues with my mom in Georgia, which is part of why I left. I recently moved to NYC to reconnect with my dad and his side of the family after not seeing them for years, and honestly, it’s been really meaningful. I love being around them.
The problem is finances. Living in New York City is expensive, and my dad is low-income. We’re currently living in my late grandmother’s apartment, and while family helps, money is still tight.
On the other hand, if I go back to Georgia, I can stay with my boyfriend and his mom. I’m already attending University of North Georgia online, everything is set, and I’m on track to graduate with my BSN around 2028. School is also much more affordable there since I’m considered in-state.
My biggest concern with going back is relying on my relationship. My boyfriend and I do argue sometimes (like any couple), and while we always work things out, I worry about what would happen if we broke up while I’m living there. I don’t want to end up in a bad situation and have to start over again.
If I stay in NYC, I’d probably go to Hunter College, but I’m not sure how many of my credits will transfer, if I’ll graduate on time, or if I’ll be considered in-state yet. Financially, it’s definitely more stressful here.
So I’m stuck between:
Staying in NYC with family (emotional support but financial stress + uncertainty with school)
Going back to Georgia (more stable financially + clear school path, but relying on a relationship)
I keep going back and forth, and I know I need to make a final decision soon.
What would you do in my situation? Any advice or perspective would really help.