“Co-parenting”
Does anyone else’s STBX or Ex just like not get it?
The kids and I moved to my hometown where our support is. Divorce is hopefully being finalized in the next 30-60 days. I have custody. Child support agreed on. I have a job starting in 2 weeks and things are finally looking like they might work out.
Ex came to visit the kids this past weekend and asked if they could have the kids for a week in August. Of course sure… then they followed up with “so you’ll come out for the week and all go back”. And they were shocked when I said that I wouldn’t have the PTO and even if I did, Im not going to use it to basically go back to the dynamic I’m divorcing which was me being their stay at home nanny and they can continue doing whatever they want so they can “see the kids” (probably for the 10 min in the morning and the 30min before bed).
I swear they don’t get it. And it’s exhausting trying to even make them understand.