am i wrong to report an abusive family member to ice/ this family member is also stealing money from my grandma and cheating on her also using her for visa
My step-grandpa is honestly one of the worst people I know. I genuinely think he may be using my grandma for financial support or immigration reasons because he refuses to work and lives off her money. He’s cheated on her multiple times, including last summer, and I still haven’t told her because I honestly think she wouldn’t care. She constantly complains about being broke while supporting him financially.
The situation at home is exhausting because they’re both toxic in different ways. He’s verbally abusive and has also put his hands on her before. Today he called me disgusting and a stupid girl for no reason while I was just walking by. I didn’t even respond because I’m not trying to get into a fight with a grown man who clearly has anger issues and a chemically imbalanced brain, im lowkey kind of religious but i will always wish death on this guy he’s just a waste of space.
What also frustrates me is that my grandma makes good money (100k annually) but still gives him whatever he wants, yet she’s taken my birthday money before ($800) and then called me greedy or stingy. The entire situation feels dysfunctional and draining.
Part of me wants to report him to ICE because I’m tired of the abuse and chaos he brings into everyone’s lives, but another part of me wonders if that would make me a bad person. I honestly don’t know what the right thing to do is anymore.
HE NEEDS TO GO BACK TO AFRICA immediately also i haven’t mentioned he continuously comes back to our house for 5 months and spends the rest in sweden because that’s where he lives, also my grandma and step f*ckt*rd grandpa have been married for like 27 years such a sad marriage it has to end some way, he doesn’t even post her on his socials and they don’t follow eachother because he seems to be hiding something not too long ago we found out he had a secretly family like genuinely that should be your last straw for the marriage like just break up at this point.