AIO about my BF’s sisters roommate?
TLDR:
My BF (31M) and I (26F) recently started dating after a rocky two-year history. He recently admitted he lied about past intimacy with his female best friend (who is also his sister's roommate). Now, I am struggling with severe jealousy over her close ties to his family and got mad that he received a hospital update about her. AIO?
Long story for those who care:
Me f(26) and current BF(31)first met 2 years ago, after him not being ready to commit we ended things but I was heartbroken. On and off communication and flings now we are dating and in love for a month.
A week ago he says that his best friend and him (who is his sisters roommate and he’s said in the past she’s considered family) were in a toxic relationship in high school and have been intimate. He lied when I first asked him if their friendship had ever been anything more since I had a suspicion. After everything, I was ok with it and can understand that people grow up.
1: AIO for hoping they haven’t been intimate since high school?
2:AIO for telling him today that I don’t care that she’s in the hospital? Apparently she goes to the hospital often which he’s told me before but his sister keeps him updated about her going every time apparently. The best friend also used to call him all the time.
3:AIO about getting mad about him even getting the update at all?
4:AIO for saying I am worried the gf role in his family is filled by her?
5:AIO about feeling jealous of her and his sisters friendship?