why are cis "allies" so fake
not every ally, but ENOUGH allies to be a problem.
they do not gaf about us or what we think, lol. most support I've seen from the majority have been telling aidens that it's valid that they want to have their titties out, telling lilliths that they should get over their dysphoria bcs it's reinforcing gender norms and "we love masculine women", 😍 and sweep it under the rug when we express dysphoria, the way cis ppl treat us, or even when we're not perfect and end up being mean or snappy.
they want us to fit their boxes of perfect, positive, non-dysphoric subhumans who r ok with being talked down to and overshadowed. dont even try to have a voice they will shame u 😭
i think this type of ally just wants us all to be cis and gnc. no i don't want to be a cutesy anime femboy. no i don't want to do drag make up and have a beard. i just want to be a cis woman and im not a misogynistic man for that. that's not my job and u don't hold cis ppl to those standards 😒