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I get called conservative by other “lesbians”

I start to question if I am actually conservative. I am pro choice and everything, not really religious or anything. I saw a lesbian saying that sexuality is fluid and can change through our lives. I disagreed and told her lesbians and gays don’t have a fluid sexuality and doesn’t change. I explained it is just as bad like the Men who say we haven’t found the right one yet and we will turn to men one day.

She kind of immediately jumped on me and said It is indeed fluid and I deny facts since I am a conservative… how does that make me conservative? The woman also said she is “kinda lesbian” herself while showing herself with a gay and then a lesbian flag all over her profile. I asked her, so when you are gay, you are only into men. How come you have a lesbian flag all over now and you’re kinda a lesbian? She got mad and blocked me completely off.

Maybe I am conservative for thinking that i honestly think sexuality is fixed especially for gays and lesbians. She said apparently she’d tell straight ppl the same thing… yeah let’s tell straight people their sexuality will change! I think it’s bs. Maybe I am not woke enough.

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u/Playful-Picture-9453 — 13 hours ago

Lesbophobic Man : Lesbians are biphobic, don’t date them

A good example of lesbophobia being ignored as always. This guy has been spreading the most lesbophobic shit into Social Media. Yeah us lesbians be so “male centered” fr… why are Men always in our business? Sure us being les4les is biphobic to him but Bi4Bi, T4T isn’t… lesbophobia is RAMPANT and let me say this clearly. WE ARE A VERY SMALL MINORITY OF THE LGBTQ CALLED COMMUNITY. He was basically stating “Bisexuals only date men because Lesbians hate bi’s” which is a homophobic and also a biphobic take. We do not make a lot percentage of someone’s dating pool if they date multiple genders at all.

Hard truth but Lesbians are always blamed for everything. Why bisexuals and other queer women only end up with men… “ph because lesbians won’t date them”. Who is gonna stick up for us? Straight men, Bi women, straight women… they all be kicking OUR asses and say it’s our fault.

LESBOPHOBIA IS NEVER OR BARELY RECOGNISED.

There is some small pushback - but not enough.

Les4Les lesbians are not Biphobic
Bi4Bi aren’t lesbophobic
T4T aren’t homophobic either or any.

But they only be upset at Les4Les and not anything else

I think it’s ridiculous that a whole ass man with some platform and quite some reach makes such lesbophobic statements and telling bi women not to date us because we are biphobic asf and lesbians are this and this…

u/Playful-Picture-9453 — 3 days ago

Paris viral TikTok “I don’t like Masc women If I want a masculine I’d just date a guy”

Y’all have probably seen this viral TikTok. It’s unfortunate that so many people agreed with her. Everything in her Video is lesbophobic and an absolute INSULT to lesbian women. She also mentioned in the TikTok how scary women are, scary to talk to and when it comes to the physical stuff she would rather be with a Man because they have a “thing” because it feels better while also saying women have tools to put on as well but it’s not the same. She has also discussed how no one takes the lead then (she is talking about gender roles and that) overall she doesn’t see herself setting with a woman. I think this is a perfect example, why lesbians want to date lesbians because our attraction to women is full & pure, genuine. You bring enough to the table. As a masc myself it just hurts but I have always known this about at least Bisexual women. Mascs, how are you doing after seeing that if you have seen it? I feel shit. Not sure if this is a Vent but Im pissed

u/Playful-Picture-9453 — 6 days ago

Tell something about les4les relationships…

Meanwhile everyone says that les4les relationships are homophobic etc. Excluding other women, tell me something that you absolutely cherish and benefit from les4les relationships. What especially has made it so fitting for you? Often it’s similar experience, common ground especially when it comes to fighting patriarchy together. I want to see some positivity!!! I can say, I am les4les because it feels more mutual like on all levels… I know she is into me as I am into her… I know she likes women like I do, we both fight against patriarchy and we are both Interested in similar things… tell me yours!

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u/Playful-Picture-9453 — 7 days ago