u/Plane_Shoulder_9020

I’ve seen a lot of videos where men seem shocked, stressed, or even unhappy when their wives tell them they’re having another baby. Sometimes the reaction looks like they’re not excited at all.

I just turned 24, not yet married but do you guys naturally reach a point where you genuinely want kids or marriage, or does that feeling depend on the person? For men who were unsure at first, what changed for you (if anything)?

I’ve noticed that some woman/ girls seem to be attracted to guys with a “bad boy” image or those who are socially popular but not very stable in life. What actually drives that kind of attraction?

I’m curious because sometimes these guys are well-known, dress well, and are socially active, but not necessarily focused or stable long-term. Yet they still seem to attract a lot of attention.

What factors explain this kind of attraction?