Incident at the store today
I was shopping for a pair of shoes for myself with my partner and I noticed a pair of shoes that had a orange ish brownish stain on the gums and I mentioned they had a stain and then we went to the same store again today to have another look and I saw the same pair of shoes and right as I was thinking in my head that that stain was weirding me out and I didn’t want us touching it she reached out and grabbed them to show me them as an option and her hand touched the stain and I have been flipping out about it since. Am I wrong for blaming her and wonder why out of all the shoes she happened to grab that pair and accidentally touch that part of them that had a stain? (In my head I am thinking the stain is dried blood or something). I just don’t know how to deal with this situation because the exact thing I didnt want to happen in my head beforehand played out in front of my eyes coincidentally before I could even do anything pre-emptively