Am I delusional or MIL reacts to everything I post on social media?
I’m noticing a weird pattern of every time I post a picture of me or my fiance posts me they react or cause problems. They go weeks with 0 communication but then I post we get a phone call from MIL or SIL about SIL’s wedding.
- I posted a pic of myself on instagram of myself at my friends wedding because I genuinely liked my dress and I got likes and compliments from his cousins. I don’t have MIL or SIL on social media then he gets a call from SIL’s fiance family to invite him to her destination wedding. It’s funny because they also gave us our own password snd log in to have access! They want to select certain guests for their wedding. Also her wedding was rushed to be before mine after we sent save the date.
- After the save the date drama and how she rushed hers to be before even though we told her our date 6 months before she booked hers. My fiance posted me for my birthday then immediately she calls the same night to check on him. Im confused because they don’t talk to him for days LOL then any social media activity then they call.
- My fiance sends the RSVP and website for our wedding in the group chat with his cousins, his sister decides to leave the group chat days after for work reasons then his mom calls and asks him to do the same. I told my fiance don’t leave group chats… this is weird
- When we first got engaged because his mom didn’t like me and his sister as well because I wasn’t too friendly or a people pleaser like his exs basically every time he posted me, his mom would cry panic and call. Also she threatened family members if they follow me she would cut them off.
I’m trying to understand if Im crazy or if these are coincidence? My last post at my friend’s wedding was just me dressed up and he made a joke about us being next to get married then they invite us to the wedding they have been hiding details from us. My fiance laughs about it and he keeps saying “ Don’t hide or stop posting for anyone”.