u/PianoBird34

Anyone have experience getting Apretude? Did it affect your mental health at all?

Thanks!

Have been fine since moving here in August but ever since the wind storm yesterday I’ve been absolutely demolished. Anyone else? In part trying to ascertain whether I’m just experiencing allergies later than would be expected or if others are feeling it too.

The kind no one wants to have to look up — seeking recommendations for a solid (and ideally somewhat affordable) divorce lawyer. Not even sure where to begin looking.

Thanks 🙏

Dating again after a few years off following a rough ending to a very difficult LTR. The years in the interim have been rife with various struggles - health issues, moves, career changes etc.

Anyway— point being is that, while I feel like I’m doing much better than my low point, I’m still a bit on the emotionally vulnerable side. I’ve been doing “the work” via therapy and so on, and at a point it’s just “this is the new me always in progress” vs expecting to be who I once perhaps was.

Problem I’m experiencing is that I find myself still very affected by the behaviors of my dates. I’ve been seeing a guy for maybe 4 dates now and it just feels intense for me. He is going through a rough patch in life and I’m falling into my stupid caring habits where I feel like moving heaven and earth when someone is having a bad time. But with that I become emotionally invested — and it just feels premature maybe. As it’s just time wise too soon - for him I’m sure and just in general. I’ve always been a bit of a romantic, but it feels more like a vulnerable ego than anything maybe.

Anyway— I’m not sure what to do. I don’t like feeling depression or heart ache with this. And I don’t want to make things sound complicated by bringing it up.

I dunno. Seeking advice. Feeling pretty depressed and not sure if it is this or old wounds.