sketchy bumble situation - was i right to bail?
met up with this woman from bumble last week and things got weird fast. we barely exchanged messages before she was pushing to meet that same evening for drinks. during our phone call beforehand, she even brought up me staying at her place which seemed pretty forward for a first meeting.
i suggested getting a hotel room instead but she kept insisting i come back to her apartment, mentioning her roommates would be gone. we started at a couple bars downtown and while the conversation was fine, something felt off about the whole thing.
after we left the second place, this random guy walks up and starts chatting with us. at first i thought he was just some friendly stranger, but she immediately got super comfortable with him like they'd known each other forever. they're sharing drinks and acting way too familiar for people who just met.
then out of nowhere he mentions having drugs back at his place and asks if we want to join him. she got visibly excited about it which made my stomach drop. here i am, not even from this area originally, being invited to do illegal substances with people i barely know at some stranger's house.
when we got to the next transit stop, i told her something came up and i had to go. she tried to convince me to stay but i just left. didn't make accusations or anything dramatic - just trusted my instincts and got out of there.
now i'm second-guessing myself. was this some kind of setup or am i just paranoid? has anyone else run into similar situations on dating apps?