I M23 and my gf F20 have been in a 4 years relationship and i want to know if wants to have segs?
So we have been in a 4 years relationship and 3 of those were long distance. We were really sweet and cute most of the times when we were in different cities.
She moved to my city over a year ago.
At first we just hung around..i kissed her and she kissed me, we both were real happy.
Im sorry if i seem a bit noob but i like to go slow and so does she.
Then we got a bit more intimate with time. We kiss each here and there on the body… give each other hickeys
Just for the context that i have kissed her boobs and almost every part of her body. But i have never take off my pants, just the shirt.
Now my real wondering starts here that as a guy I need/want sex so bad but i haven’t initiated it even a bit. By the way she lets me finger her and she enjoys it and explain it as most blessfull feeling ever. This is because this is her first time being in a physical relationship. And mine too😭.
So we have a great thing going on but i dont know what to say or ask to be able to get her consent. Cuz she never says no to any thing physical we do. She’s a bit worried about bleeding too and suddenly asks me to see if she bleeding while im fingering her but she never is. But this has happened 3-4 times.
Summary is TO GET THE REAL ANSWER OF HOWWWWW and WHATTTT TO DO