Advice Needed: would it be okay to go to a gay men's singles meet up as a trans man?
I am a late 30s pre-surgery trans man, who is interested in men. it's been about 2 years since my divorce (ex-husband left because I found out I am slowly going blind), and I am finally actually interested in starting to date again.
I recently saw that there is a local daring event for gay men, and was considering going, but I am honestly on the fence on if it would be inappropriate or lead to problems. I mean, I am a single gay man who gets "sir"d by strangers here in TX, so I clearly pass and am in the target group. However, I don't have the bits so I'm worried that I will be deceiving the other guys there.
What do y'all think? should I stick to dating apps where I can disclose that I am trans in my profile? Should I wear a little trans flag pin?