AITA for getting mad and ignoring my bf after ball?
AITA for getting mad at my bf at a ball and ignoring him after?
I (17F) had a graduation ball and my bf (18M) was my escort at an old but well known hotel.
I started getting ready at 2 and finished by 4. The invite literally said 5 PM. I was just waiting for him after that, and he only arrived at 5:45.
When he got there, I went down to meet him but the hotel’s elevator is slow AND old. Not only that, I’m at the 16th floor with too many stops because all of the students were going down with their dates and it took like 15 minutes. The FIRST thing he says when I get down is that I made us late because I took too long.
That pissed me off because how?? I was ready early and he showed up almost an hour late. He knew I was checked in and he told me. I was already to call him to leave as early as 4 because his place was 1 hour away from the venue. Even HE left at 430.
Anyway, we were at the reception of the venue and I told him to stfu out of frustration and told him to just go in. While we were walking in he stepped on my dress and did not even escort me properly through the tight spaces in between the tables which, of course, made me even more annoyed.
When we sat down, I tried explaining why I was upset (that he blamed me right away instead of acknowledging he was late), but he kept interrupting me and arguing that I was the reason we were late. Like he wouldn’t even let me finish talking.
So I told him “I won’t talk to you unless you fix your tone” and I stopped talking to him for like an hour.
During that time he tried putting the corsage on me and holding my hand but I pushed both away. We didn’t even talk properly nor did he even apologize properly.
Not long after, he took our photos and literally tore them in front of my friends, slammed the corsage on the table and walked away.
and then texted me saying he wants to breakup.
So, AITA?