Passing out when choked, getting mad at safewords
Hi! For context, me and this guy dated for around 8 months and he was into choking during sex. I was 19 at the time, he was 20. I was down to try it and ended up liking it. Anyway, one time, he choked me and my body started to feel really tingly and weird and then I "woke up" to him saying my name over and over and tapping my shoulder/back.
He didn't seem very concerned, and said he liked that I got "silly" when I woke up (very confused, disoriented). Because it felt good before I passed out and he didn't seem worried (and being uneducated and dumb) we went along with it. It became normal for this to happen, and I enjoyed it.
Point is, looking back I realize he was a little weird the way he went about things. He often wouldn't stop when I would tap his arm (my signal for him to stop, we discussed this beforehand), and I suggested we use safewords for other things and he got kinda mad and defensive and said if I trust him we won't need them.
I just wanna know if the choking will have any serious affects in the long run, now that I'm less stupid and know that depriving your brain of oxygen is obviously dangerous. Especially since we did this alot. Or if anyone has just any opinions in general, thanks