Need some advice / guidance
so my wife and I are both asian. been married 3 years. been together 5 total. she’s drop dead gorgeous. a few moths ago, when we were at a coffee shop, i bumped into one of my old work friend (let’s call him jamal. he was born in nigeria and raised in the uk). so we chat for a bit and my wife comes to the till to place an order. the minute he saw her, i could tell he was stunned by how pretty she was. i introduced them. and she was all smiles and talking ( she is with everyone) and then she returned to the table. even when he was talking to her i could tell. he’s a much taller, more muscular guy than me.
ever since i got back to the table, i couldn’t get the image of seeing both of them together out of my head like i developed some weird kink. not surprisingly jamal soon sent me and her insta requests and is in touch fairly regularly . i did bring up the kink personally to my wife (let’s call her dani) and tho she was taken aback we talked for several weeks since and she’s more open to it but hasn’t said anything definitively.
i’m looking for advice: if we do go down this road, will there be feelings between dani and jamal? can this not be a one time thing at all? open to dms, just looking for someone to share this with for guidance really.