how do you manage your worries or anxiety over your partner travelling with their friends?
stated in the title. tiap kali my bf blg mau travel sama temannya, aku rasa ter-trigger, i can't stop looking at his location. i keep checking my phone for updates. knp aku ter-trigger? krn >!teman dia ada history of cheating (none of them say anything walaupun itu couplean 1 circle dan aku sampe skrg terpikir terus what if kalo itu dia?), ada jg yg prnh random hookup.!< dia reassure aku kalo dia ga ky gitu. i know, tp aku cape bngt terus spiral klo dia sebatas nongki doang sm temannya. aku pernah travel bareng dia dan temannya, dan itu first and the last time.
tahun lalu dia ke iceland sama temannya (ber3 cowo). terus aku rasa ada yg janggal. ber3 doang? masa gada org lain? mungkin sekitaran sebulan sebelum dia pergi aku tny ulang, klian ber3 doang? tiba tiba dia blg oh ada org lain ikut. aku tny cewe? dia iyain. dari situ jg aku lumayan kesal bgt, harus ditny dlu baru ngomong. i don't want to get too much into details. we're in a long distance relationship (ongoing 3 yrs now) sbelumnya pernah living together 3thnan jg. so how do you manage your worries kalo partner kalian travel? please don't come at me. hanya mau insights aja. thanks for reading.
