My dad keeps crossing boundaries of my mom, should I tell her.
Hi, I’m 15F first time on Reddit, just looking for some advice.
For some context my dad has always been bad with boundaries, while my parents were together he would constantly complain about her and their marriage problems to me.(I was 11 when this first started) and even got CFS called him, but that’s another story😉
Last summer my parents got a divorce and my mom got to keep the house. A few times my dad would enter the house, take items( socks, clothes even food) and snoop around. I’ve mentioned it to my mom and she recently got the locks changed. I was telling my dad a funny story while he was driving about how I tried to guess the lock combo but never got it.That’s when he pulled infront her house and told me he forgot something by the front porch and to wait in the car. 5 mins later he comes out looking accomplished and told me he figured it out. I’m really pissed because why do you think she changed the locks in the first place! This feels super invasive and I want to tell my mom except I originally brought up my mom changing the locks to my dad. Is this my fault for bringing it up and should I tell my mom though she just changed her locks?