why are asian parents fucking like this
ok so i’m graduating middle school and i was asking my mom to buy me a dress since i currently have like zero dresses. then she immediately says “if it’s too expensive im not buying it”. obviously i get that there’s budgets and shit but that being the first thing she says when it’s supposed to be a milestone of me graduating
is hella weird. keep in mind i’ve also shown her a few dresses i wanted a few weeks ago and they’re from common stores that most ppl buy dressses from like princess polly or windsor at my local mall.
i’d get it if we were maybe poor or struggling but we are obviously not even close to that. they own a 3 million plus dollar house and my sister goes to fucking private school. we are probably way more well off then a lot of ppl. and that doesn’t mean they should spoil me but i’d say a graduation dress under 100 dollars would not be too much? all my friends even most that are not as well off are able to get similar dresses and then there’s my parents that will refuse to get me anything even when they clearly have the money.
the dress isn’t the only example too it’s for everything. like they’ll always complain abt things being expensive even when they’re rather cheap and they can fs afford it. it’s like an asian habit and it’s genuinely just ruining my life