How do I move on from a situationship where I experienced limerence
This man looked like Leonardo de caprio. I was obsessed with his looks and let him do whatever he wanted and of course he took advantage of that. I am angry at myself and feel stupid I let looks be such an important factor when he was an absolute douche.
But now he’s with someone else.. actually dating a girl and it’s breaking my heart that I should’ve done something different, not slept with him right away, tried to date him. I’m seeing that he’s not an asshole with her, his best side is showing. He was funny, smart and clever. It makes me angry, I never really felt I had a chance. I’ve been really good at keeping my distance and trying not to look at his instagram but 3 years later here I am looking at his new gfs, feeling like absolute shit about myself.
I know better now.. get to know the person, don’t let looks be a determining factor but I feel sad that I overlooked someone attractive and had a great personality (when he wanted to). He did sleep with other girls while being with me and ghosted me multiple times and broke my heart. How do I break this limerence