u/Ok_Midnight_3967

▲ 6 r/carsIndiaOfficial+1 crossposts

I’m 19M and I want to learn driving because honestly it feels like the right time. After my father passed away, we don’t have any vehicle at home and it’s becoming difficult for household needs.

The thing is, I’ve never learned to ride a cycle or bike. My mom has always been very anxious about two-wheelers because of frequent accidents around us (and honestly I agree, Indian roads can be risky for bikes). So we’re thinking of skipping bikes entirely.

Our plan is to buy a second-hand automatic car, use it for 1–2 years while I learn properly, and then upgrade to a better car later.

I have a few doubts:

  • Is it okay to directly learn a car without ever riding a bike/cycle?
  • Are automatic cars better for beginners and faster learning?
  • Should I stick with a used car first or just buy a decent new one directly (my mom prefers new)?
  • After 1–2 years, what kind of car should I aim for?

I’m a complete noob when it comes to cars, so any advice would really help 🙏

P.S. We’ll both pay for it, mostly my mom, but I’ll add my part (still in college, earning a little online).

reddit.com
u/Ok_Midnight_3967 — 14 days ago

literally free no risk money, better than any fd would give and proabbly better than indian equity, Heheheheheheehehehhehehehehehehehehheh

/shitpost

u/Ok_Midnight_3967 — 14 days ago
▲ 24 r/guwahati+1 crossposts

This mail is from zubeen garg to Abhinav Barthakur in 2005

(who seems to be his distant cousin who lived in the US, now he is a psycho)

The email seems to be legit tho

I was researching abt Abhinav Barthakur, and this video was recommended to me - Link

u/Ok_Midnight_3967 — 15 days ago
▲ 66 r/bondhustreams+1 crossposts

Basic Identity

  • Assamese man, originally from Guwahati (Ghy)
  • Formerly lived and worked in the United States
  • Likely has an engineering background (worked at Bell Labs )
  • Said to be related to Zubeen Garg (possibly cousin or extended family)

💼 Early Life & Career (High-Functioning Phase)

  • Worked in the US during the late 1990s–2000s tech period
  • Reportedly:
    • Intelligent / technically skilled
    • Stable life with:
      • Wife
      • Children
      • Social connections (family gatherings, videos with Zubeen)

👉 At this stage, he fits the profile of a successful immigrant professional and also a millionaire

🔻 Turning Point (Decline Phase)

Based on combined inputs:

  • Financial stress (possibly around 2008 crisis)
  • Legal issues (including jail time)
  • Family breakdown (separation/divorce)
  • Eventually left or was deported from the US

👉 This phase marks a major life collapse:

  • Loss of career
  • Loss of family
  • Loss of identity

🧠 Current State (Present Behavior)

Now living in Guwahati with his mother, he is known for:

  • Strong anti-system beliefs:
    • “Money is fake”
    • “Silver is real money”
  • Conspiracy-style thinking:
    • Elites controlling society
    • Distrust of institutions
  • Grand or unusual claims:
    • Power, identity, or ideological assertions

👉 Behavior suggests:

  • Distrust + isolation
  • Need to rebuild identity through beliefs

⚖️ Legal & Public Controversy

  • Previously convicted (2017 case) for terroristic threats
  • More recently (2025), charged with:
    • Threatening judges and officials
  • Pattern:
    • Verbal threats, aggressive communication

👉 This reinforces a trajectory of:

  • Increasing instability
  • Conflict with authority

🧩 Personality Pattern (Objective View)

Without exaggeration:

  • Likely:
    • Highly intelligent in earlier life
    • Now psychologically unstable or distorted thinking
  • Traits visible:
    • Paranoia (system distrust)
    • Grandiosity (special knowledge, importance)
    • Emotional volatility

🤝 Earlier relationship with Zubeen Garg

From what you described + general chatter:

  • They were close family / relatives
  • Had:
    • Family dinners
    • Social bonding
    • Normal, respectful relationship

👉 Basically: no conflict earlier

💥 Now the strange part

  • Now he:
    • Abuses Zubeen publicly
    • Talks negatively about him on Instagram / online

Its lore, u can read more on his creepy website - http://barthakur.com/

He has self-documented his whole life on the site, he has posted A-Z abt his life, but u have to dig into the rabbit hole...

u/Ok_Midnight_3967 — 15 days ago

So I need some honest advice lol

I’m from India and I’ve been talking to this girl from the Philippines online. We get along really well and we’re thinking of meeting there and like dating in real life to see how it goes.

Now my brain is jumping way ahead and I’m like… what if this actually works long term 😅 like marriage and all that. I don’t even know how that would work with different countries, family, living situation etc.

I’m not even sure what I want yet tbh, I just like her and want to meet. But at the same time I don’t want to be stupid or ignore future complications.

Has anyone here been in a similar situation with international dating? What should I realistically expect and what are the biggest red flags or things I should think about before meeting?

Be brutally honest pls 🙏

reddit.com
u/Ok_Midnight_3967 — 17 days ago