u/OkVirus1616

In what circumstances is the shaytaan the third wheel?

Salaams.

Ibn 'Umar narrated:

" 'Umar delivered a Khutbah to us at Al-Jabiyah. He said: 'O you people! Indeed I have stood among you as the Messenger of Allah(s.a.w) stood among us, and he said: "I order you (to stick to) my Companions, then those who come after them, then those who come after them. Then lying will spread until a man will take an oath when no oath was sought from him, and a witness will testify when his testimony was not sought. Behold! A man is not alone with a woman but the third of them is Ash-Shaitan. Adhere to the Jama'ah, beware of separation, for indeed Ash-Shaitan is with one, and he is further away from two. Whoever wants the best place in Paradise, then let him stick to the Jama'ah. Whoever rejoices with his good deeds and grieves over his evil deeds, then that is the believer among you.'"

Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2165

Sahih (Darussalam)

Does this mean that when we converse with the opposite gender in seclusion, the third party is shaytaan?

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u/OkVirus1616 — 3 hours ago

Mahrams

There's a gap for mahram services.

Maybe someone can make a service that offers bridging the gap between male and female.

All the brothers out there with sisters.

Example: I have access to female matchmakers in my Country, but i don't have any females who can speak to them.

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u/OkVirus1616 — 9 hours ago

Can you be just Muslim?

Salaams.

Is it possible to be just Muslim?

No other tags or titles, just Muslim?

Is it possible?

I see the tag is an option.

So what does it entail?

Are there any of these "Muslims" around?

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u/OkVirus1616 — 20 hours ago

38 | M | South Africa

Bismillah-ir-Rahman-ir-Rahim

Basic Info

  • Age/Gender: 38M
  • Height: 5'7"
  • Location: South Africa
  • Marital Status: Divorced
  • Accommodation: Family in Egypt, Rented in South Africa
  • Education: Previously Certified Professional Credential Holder (CISA)
  • Income Source: Business / Family

A little about me

Assalamu alaikum. I’m South Africa-based, easygoing. I value a simple, peaceful life built on deen, good character, and good food.

I am rocking a beard, but if i have to go to Egypt i may shorten it or take it out.

Deen / Practice

  • I try to pray 5x a day
  • Ramadan
  • I try to keep things halal and keep improving
  • I respect sincerity over perfection. Someone who is trying is a big green flag.

Hobbies & Interests

  • Volunteering
  • Dawah
  • Islamic lectures
  • Tech / gadgets
  • Eating out
  • Drives / Holidays

Family Details

  • Parents: N/A
  • Siblings: 3 sisters, 3 brothers

What I’m looking for

A kind, grounded person who values deen and good akhlaq. Someone who communicates calmly and wants a marriage for the sake of sakeenah

Top things I value:

  • Deen and sincerity
  • I want someone who is willing to come fight shaytaans with me.
  • Location: Anywhere

Are there any people who are doing Dawah work out there?

Preferred Family Setup

Anything

Children

  • I have a 14 Year old Son, he does not live with me. But I have a good relationship with him AlhamdulilLah

Timeframe for Marriage

Depends on logistics

How I prefer to proceed

I am looking to speak to brothers who know / have ladies who are interested in looking to settle down.

I am easy, I don't mind setting up a life anywhere, maybe overseas, in the middle east maybe.

JazakumAllahu khairan.

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u/OkVirus1616 — 20 hours ago