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Does anyone date to marry anymore?

Hi All,

I am female, in my early to mid 40’s, looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage eventually. It seems like all men just want casual or semi serious, but do not want to live together or get married. I understand that people have been burned by divorce by this age, however, I don’t let that define me and I am having a hard time finding someone who doesn’t let that define them. I am someone who has my life together and I am told I am attractive and young looking, yet it seems like the pool is bleak out there for others who are seeking real commitment.

Does anyone date to marry anymore? If so, where do you find these people outside of church? I am not religious enough to attend church and do not want someone who is super religious.

If you do not want to date to marry, what are you looking for? Why don’t you ever want to get married again? What is the upside for a woman to be with a man for 20 plus yrs without marriage? Esp as we get older.

I would like input from men and women.

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u/Ok-Raspberry-3878 — 15 hours ago