AIO for feeling like one of my close friends is competing with me for my husband?
my friend has been making comments lately that have been giving me the impression that she wants my husband or is in some secret competition with me for him.
they knew each other years before i met either of them, and she’s been bringing that up in odd ways. the most recent event i can remember is when i was a bit worried because my husband wasn’t answering his messages after me and him got into an argument & she texted him asking if he was okay & he didn’t reply to her either. because of that she made a comment on how she’s known him for X amount of years and that you know he’s mad if he’s not even replying to her bc of how close theyve been for years, even before me. insinuating that he’d atleast text her in any situation & him not doing so is a sign of a big problem like as if they’re so close in ways nobody else understands. idk it just felt weird, and she’s made other similar comments.
other small instances are things like how she mentions she knows him so well & tries to describe my own husband to me like i don’t know him as well as she does. she’s even tried correcting me about him when i tell her he likes this or that.
it might just be me being insecure and stuff but it’s genuinely annoying and i can’t talk to people about it because it’s small situations stacked on top of each other and i sound irrational trying to explain it. aio about this or do you understand where im coming from?