u/Ok-Passion1034

I was raised in non religious household and left Catholicism early.

Through my life, I have been in multiple relationships with men from different religious backgrounds; atheists, muslims, and catholics.

So far the Catholic one surprisingly was the most toxic, obsessed with religion, and misogynistic I have ever met. I dumbed him two days ago after months long conversations about him trying to convert me to the religion of so called “love”. I was shocked to see how much he was insistent on me becoming catholic it was suffocating. He was a control freak saying women should obey and submit?!

I stayed because I thought he did all that because he loved me and wanted to find common ground. But it became excessive and I had to leave to save my sanity. Never again.

Sorry for the boring post but I think I needed to get this off my chest.

I am traveling to another country for 2 weeks and has this beautiful BSH girl who I can’t take with me. She gets panicked every time she leaves the house and will not tolerate a 12 hour flight. At the same time I am not sure how to leave her alone? I cannot imagine her being by herself all day. I can get a friend to fill her bowl everyday but otherwise no one can stay with her. Any tips how to make things better? Please advise.