u/Ok-Knowledge2845

For context: I am a foreigner (Indian) in Germany. I speak German and English, and message people either in the language, their profile is written in, or in German.

I have been on Grindr for almost a year now. I couldn't get laid. The thing is, I do get responses from people I message. They find me cute, hot, sexy, whatever as per their likings. But it never leads to meeting in person. The conversations somehow fizzle out. Some within 2 texts, some after many more. I tried all sorts of conversation lengths: sometimes I tried to build a rapport, sometimes I complimented them on very first message, other times I was very direct about wanting to be fucked. But to no avail.

How, how long, and exactly what conversations do you guys on Grindr?