u/Ok-Guava9576

My husband of 12 years had been going to sex workers (3 that he admits to.. but claims no sex just bj) and a dozen times to massage parlor.

I left. It’s been 8 months. But I am still struggling so hard. I’m a smart, capable woman with my own business. I look after myself and have confidence in almost everything I do…. But I still can’t seem to shake this.

Now (learned through friends) he’s talking about “testing the waters” and putting himself out there to see what’s there (dating wise) .

I feel like I should be good. Clearly not my guy. I dodged a bullet… I get it.

But I still miss him and it’s still so painful. I couldn’t even imagine being with anyone else.

Anyone else ever experience this? Tips?