u/Ok-Delivery307

coming from go (I love golang) but I wanna do a little bit of freelancing so im doing some leetcode to understand php so I can learn lavarel and im not gonna lie im confuse by $ for local variable and params function (params function is variable underneath so it make sense ) and the array_push(references, ...values) and you what surprise or confuse you when you first learn php ? just started but php seems a little bit more complex than go am I wrong ?

I was in a relationship for seven years, and I’ve been single for about a year now.

I don’t have many friends, so I don’t go out very often. In fact, my girlfriend was my best friend and the only friend I needed, so that was enough for me. 

Now, I finally feel comfortable talking to and spending time with other women, so when someone catches my eye, I try to talk to her, but it’s hard (especially since I’m pretty clumsy and relatively shy). I feel like I’m at a job interview, or even worse. Physically, some girls think I’m cute, others think I’m “not bad,” and still others think I’m handsome, so I clearly have average looks. I’m 30, but I look 23 or 25, to give you a little context. When I talk to coworkers or friends, everything seems to go well—of course, I notice that people talk a lot about someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend (extramarital affairs). 

I suppose it’s hard to tell from this short text, but do you think I’m not quite up to par (given my relative shyness)? Am I perhaps too average? Is it maybe my appearance that makes me look younger? Or has the world simply changed? What’s your experience?

This summer I wanna try freelancing a little bit but as a backend focused guy, I struggle for ui related things (like layout, with components to use etc even with all those libs) so I wanna earn your expérience, how you handle this type of situation when dealing with customers. did you spend time learning ui or do you show the customer some template so it can choose from ? what is the best approach ? do you say no when they ask complex ui like awwwards winning website ?

Let's say I'm building a pizza website I'm setting it with pocketbase and astro !
what is better generate the site and fetch the menu with client fetch ?
I asked because im wanna make sure the website will be well ranked and at the same time I want the admin be able to change the receipt of a pizza or a menu.
https://pocketbase.io/docs/how-to-use/#why-not-js-ssr and because of this as well.
what is the best solution so website is well ranked and admin can change data.