u/Odd_Concentrate_7749

Is this wrong of me to do?

So I'm a FTM, and I've been finding it very annoying since the very beginning of my pregnancy when people start giving me unsolicited advice or start comparing me to their pregnancies or other people they knows pregnancies. For example, my older sister (who, btw, I never told I was pregnant already knew, which pissed me off low-key) and her husband started telling me that I couldn't travel by car to another state because her husband's friend's wife started bleeding while she was traveling from Boston to NYC. I told them that they needed to stop projecting and comparing my pregnancy to others peoples pregnancies because we're two different people.

I'm starting to realize that when my partner, his family, or just anyone in general is giving me unsolicited advice or tells me things that I should or shouldn't do, I dismiss them, fake the funk in the conversation or just tune them out. is it wrong of me to do this? I just feel like unless it's my doctor I just don't really feel like hearing it.

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u/Odd_Concentrate_7749 — 9 hours ago