u/Odd-Explanation-8191

I am new to this life, we have been together for 3 years and just got married this February, he put his request in this January, and today they said they had been approved which we were not expecting until this July or August. I do not know what to do, what to expect or how to cope with the beginning of this new life. I’m not sure where to go with this or how to help. I don’t know who to talk to or what the next steps need to be. Fear and anxiety are winning over excitement at the moment. I know my life is in some ways not my own anymore which I knew and was okay with going into it. But this is so new, so different. Can someone give me some pointers about what this might look like, what I need or should do?