u/Nothingsenough80

Help

My boyfriend is trying to quit. He's been doing pretty well for a week or two as he was staying with me. He returned to his friends house where hes staying on the days he doesn't work. So at my place 4-5 days and with his buddies the other 2-3 days. I just found out while he was gone again he's on a chat app today where he made a profile and girls messaged him but he said he stopped himself and didn't follow through. But he did admit to jerking off to porn videos 1 a day for the past couple of days and video chatting with apps probably sexual but not jerking off. We are trying to get into therapy and him a csat but haven't found the right one yet. Its killing me that he can't keep it up with me or cum but keeps trying and yet he keeps going g back to jerking off which starts the process all over again. I told him for now I would rather him just look at porn until we get into therapy just no live sex chats but now he's back to everything. Trying to hold on and fight for us but everyday Im losing a little more trust and love for him. What to do

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u/Nothingsenough80 — 1 day ago