u/NoodlesWithMelons

25F finding a mate in college

I downloaded Tinder for the third time in my life and but like all the other times I think I'm going to delete it. I got a couple of matches and talked to his boy lol, idk we've only talked for a day or two and he wants to meet this weekend but eh. I'm not really interested in doing so. Maybe the way he texts, I'm not feeling it even though he is very polite and kind and asking me questions. I feel relief at the idea of just deleting the app.

Idk I'll probably cut it off tomorrow and delete the app again. Perhaps I should join soccer? I do love soccer. Sigh, it's so hard to fall in love as a demi. I can count on one hand the times that it's occurred. I'm 25, I want children I think eventually and I'll see other couples studying together and think: "I want that." Any advice for me? Do you guys dread the dating apps as much as I do?

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u/NoodlesWithMelons — 5 hours ago

CS major want to switch to Interaction Design

I got a year left to get bachelor CS degree and I work so hard to just barely understand. I'm currently in Stats & Probability and Data Structures, midterm tomorrow for the latter. And I'm sitting here thinking, why am I working so hard for something I don't even enjoy?

I picked CS because back in middle school I did coding academy and I loved HTML and CSS and it was fun to me and I was good at it. I know it's not the most impressive.

Anyway my whole college journey has been consumed with Java, god I don't love Java. And I was looking at a different college and its degree for Interaction Design and the classes look so much more appealing to me. I'm an artist, I don't have a large following but I have an Instagram where I post my traditional and digital art. It just seems like a good degree to transition to imo.

But I've read a couple posts from here already about how the job market is absolute hell right now for UX. So what advice can you give me? Should I switch? Should I stay and tough it out?

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u/NoodlesWithMelons — 7 days ago