Why do people say things?
Whyyyy do people say the most fucked up things to pregnant women?
My FIL asks if I’m going to breastfeed.
Me: “if I can, I will, if I can’t, I won’t.”
Him: (leans to my husband) “talk her into it so you don’t have to wake up at 3am for feedings.”
Me: “I’ll probably wake him up either way.”
Him: “but he’ll have to work the next day.”
Me: “and I’ll have to care for a child all the next day.”
Him: “oh, you’ll have all day to sleep.”
Me: (fuming) “do not upset a pregnant woman.”
HOW ARE YOU ALL DEALING WITH THIS.
Sometimes people are joking but like… you’re. Not. Funny.
My brother congratulating my husband on having a DD for the next 9 months as if that’s all I’m here for. My other relative saying that my husband is going to start looking forward to mondays now.
It’s pissing me off and driving me nuts.