When did you know divorce was the way to go?!
edit:one other consideration is in our state, in order to divorce you must live separate for one year before that can happen. That makes this much trickier.
Long story short, there is little to no love left in our marriage. You can feel the disdain and disrespect whenever we are around each other.
We have an 11 yr old and 6 yr old who I fear have already and will continue picking up on that and grow up with this as their example of a relationship.
I have thought of divorce for years, she's told me to get out and not come home dozens of times. We fight constantly. It sucks. She's already said she would refuse 50/50 custody and spend her half of everything making sure she gets the kids as much as possible.
There was no cheating or abuse or anything like that, we have really grown apart and I can't really place the blame on either one of us.
At this point I don't even want it to get better, I just want to not be fighting all the time and would rather move on.
Any advice dads?