I’ll start off with the disclaimer that no one should do anything they don’t want to or aren’t comfortable doing sexually. You can’t and shouldn’t make someone do something.
With that said I have a dilemma. My girlfriend is not really adventurous or kinky. I on the other hand am, I’ve had a lot of fun sexual experiences. So I feel like sexually this is a step down. She doesn’t like to give head and when she does, she barely goes down and does not swallow. When we fuck, I do a lot of the work regardless of the position (we really just do three standard ones). I love going down in her and I do it every time. It isn’t mutual and she doesn’t really like it so it kills it for me the rare times she doesn’t it.
I’m not sure what to do. I don’t want to break up but I have a high sex drive. I have spoken to her and she says “I don’t like to do that” to a lot of things. Any advice on how I should approach this from here? Anyone have a similar experience that they can share what happened?