Met a Dom that wants to have a dynamic, but doesn’t want to have sex. Is this a real thing or am I wasting my time with someone who’s not attracted to me?
Hi,
Over this past weekend I went on 2 dates on 2 consecutive days with this guy I met on bumble. He’s never had a dynamic before and said he wants to explore it with me. We haven’t had sex which is fine because we just met, but after we did some impact play last night I was surprised at the lack of contact in general. It’s not that I expected sex right then and there, it’s just that I perceived quite a strong bit of sexual tension and thought we’d at least make out and touch each other even with clothes on. Well, we didn’t really kiss or anything at all. And I started to feel weird so I asked him to take me home. We did text today and spoke about it and he said he’d like a dynamic without sex. It’s a bit odd for me because I thought it meant he wasn’t attracted to me, but he assured me that he was. Unsure about how I want to proceed.
Anyways, any thoughts are welcome.