u/New_Cause_3703

Just that.

The wedding is in six months and she’s making all kinds of excuses for why she might not be able to travel to our wedding.

My father passed about ten years ago, so my only living parent.

She complained about money, I’ve told her the flight will be paid for. She’s expressed concerns about mobility, but also goes out weekly to social events and have let her know we can arrange for services at the airport, hotel and venue.

And I’m just trying to prepare myself for her not coming. A lot to emotionally untangle.

Did you have a parent that did this?

How did you process it?