u/New-Tale4197

Husband and I have been trying for about a year now for our second. Our daughter is 11 and it took several years for her as well. I have stage 4 endometriosis and my last lap was in 2022 when a 25LB ovarian mass was removed along with my left ovary and tube. Had no idea I was growing a tumor that large really thought I was just gaining weight and I don’t experience pain at all thanks to endo haha. My surgeon stated that all endo she could remove was done and my right ovary was attached to the back of my uterus and the endo was removed from there as well. Im saying all this because my current OB wants to do the dye test to see if my tube is blocked, don’t know what the exact wording is don’t have it in front of me. But also mentioned that if my tube is blocked then I will have to have surgery. When I had my surgery in 2022 my surgeon told me I have 10 years and come back to her for a hysterectomy since we were trying for another child. Alright so let’s say my tube is blocked, I go in for the surgery, able to get pregnant hopefully at some point, I then have to have a c section due to how the mass was removed, and then I have to go back and do another surgery for a hysterectomy. Im honestly at a loss right now and really starting to realize that a second child is just not in our plan. Im emotionally torn and physically tired from all the test and negative pregnancies and miscarriages when we finally get a positive. And I really just want to vent because my husband says it’s whatever I want to do he is happy with my decision. Like okay man ahhhhhh lol