u/New-Notice-186

Straight up question.... is messaging with strangers on a gay/bi sex hookup site (while you're in a committed relationship) cheating?

I think it is. If its something that hasn't been mutually agreed on between 2 people and especially if its being hidden, then it most definitely is.

Please don't give me the "if you think its cheating, then it is" line. I ALSO want to know if there's people out there that think it isn't cheating and that its ok to do as long as you don't act on it. And what your reasons are for this thought process.

Very much not my opinion, but someone said to me that its kind of like watching corn, just a more 'interractive' way to have fantasies fulfilled without actually doing it.