u/New-Jicama-1870

Hey guys,

I’m 28M and I’d say I’m fairly good-looking, so getting matches isn’t really the issue. But when it comes to actually starting a conversation on Grindr, I completely freeze. I never know what to say, and I feel like I miss out on really handsome guys just because I lack spontaneity in my messages.

The physical side doesn’t stress me out too much, but messaging? Total mystery to me.

What do you usually open with? Do you go for something simple, funny, direct? Any tips or examples of first messages that actually work?

Curious to hear what works for you.