So what's happening is having a boyfriend of almost one and half year now and everything is going great this is the most love I've ever felt. We decided to shift to city x together so what happened was he got the job before me and now I also got a job but then I have to serve a notice of about 30 days now I have to stay back in city Y while my boyfriend has already moved to city X
Alright so yesterday I went to hang out with a few of my friends one of my colleagues wanted to introduce us to his new girlfriend so few of his gathered that is house where his mother prepared us a mail and we all were telling at his place when I told this to my boyfriend he got pissed me saying why would you go to his place now he keeps on mentioning that I hate people who are very social if I knew this before this would have been a deal breaker
So there is a thing about him he doesn't believe in been to social he delive that is waste of time and he tries to project the same things on me while I am slightly outgoing I like hanging out with people I like going out exploring new places. Now I try to make him understand but please try to understand I am not the kind of person you want me to be and be knew this from the very start why are you throwing this to me now.
This is a just hangout with me have fun with me you can hang out with your girlfriend that's ok but I have a constant in security since in my past same thing happened I move to different city it was a long distance relationship and the girl cheated on me so I cannot take chance now this is affecting my current friendships my mental state and my relationship. Also one more thing I wanted to ask if The Red flag my boyfriend does not have any female friends he says that girls are only meant to talk to if we are in a romantic relationship with them is that any sort of Red flag but is I feel like having no girl friends can also show that no girl has ever trusted to be around you.
I don't know what does to be done with this feels like a lot for me to handle I don't know how to explain it to him that it's okay to be different people and yet being in a relationship I try to understand his anti socialness I even increase him to join my friends for see but he does not want to join with my friends but he constantly wants me to meet his friends I don't know if this is this regarding my friends or maybe he does not trust any of my mail friends around me or what's going on I feel so lost please help me out!!
P.s- ignore punctuation mistakes, this message is text-to-myspeech. Thanks!