Is it crazy to think my mom is a abusive person
I just watched my mom force my screaming and crying brother (13) to go with his dad, she was hitting him with a belt and everything else. I was yelling at her to stop and stuff and she wouldn't.
My mom is also aware my brother gets bullied and does nothing about it. I told her multiple times he told me he wanted to kill himself, she does nothing.
I told my grandma and she wouldn't do anything, just saying "he needs to go", and other junk. Excusing my mom with saying how she just has " anger issues ", and saying how she is just mad casue she wants child support money.
My grandma was calling me over dramatic for saying my mom is immature. (My mom is like 34 for ref)
My mom has a history of acting out, she doesn't hit me, or my other siblings, but she likes to say some nasty stuff, or being petty. Especially towards my younger sister who is 4,calling her names.
She also makes me to walk home (like an hour walk , but I am not the most physically capable person), and she pokes fun at my appearance or mental issues. She also says how I am stupid for not knowing how to drive, but she never takes time out of her day to teach me how to drive, (yeah 17 and don't know to drive...). She also don't take care of my grandma, so I have to shower my grandma, since I was 12.
I have small memories of her leaving when I was around 11,and not coming home for 3 whole days, just abandoning me and my siblings with my disabled grandma. She also made weird comments of my self harm, asking if I was " one of those sick people ". She have also lied about me in my IEP about me being violent.
My grandma keeps telling me it's cruel to plan to go no contact one I finish college.
I am probably being over dramatic, but I just feel the need of yapping this out. Sorry if this is messy, I don't know how to write this, and just wanted to vent this all out!