u/NeitherLibrarian9637

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AIO: Being driven insane by husband

Ok so today evening it was my husband's friends wedding celebration. Ive been feeling low and hormonal due to an emergency contraceptive i took. The date got fixed only yesterday so it wasn't a long standing plan. I'd already made it clear since today morning that I was on the fence about going. Today evening I said I won't go, I just want to stay at home, bake, sleep early, and hit the gym in the morning. Husband said it's important to support friends etc. coz they're there in your time of need. I made a statement saying YOUR time of need, ie, they're you're friends, and not like I haven't made excuses for you during my friends weddings, so it's fine. However, having said that, I decided to still go get ready, since I have hung out with the girl a few time. While I was getting ready, he came and told me twice don't bother, dont get ready. I thought he was just irritated and said no let's just stick to the original plan. And that I would take the cab and come back early.
But after I fully got ready, he said DON't COME. I'm not taking you, take a cab and come. i was just shocked and so pissed off I thought my head would explode. I did have a full on breakdown, said, no SHOUTED some things like you're literally driving me insane. When I kept asking why don't you want me to come, he just saying "just just", "no please don't do what I say", and then just said "I am done talking about it". And ....left?
I swear I am so mad, I could drive my fist through the wall. Idk if this whole situation is just petty or insane or Im having hormal mood swings

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