u/NeighborhoodDry9236

Hey, how is everybody?

Hey guys, just checking in, how is everybody today? I hope that everybody is okay and having an amazing day, but for those which aren’t, I hope it’s better than the worst ones.

Does anybody have some good news that you would love to share?

Sending everybody hugs, cuddles and love, wishing for everybody to have a better day. Xx

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 3 days ago

Question and check in.

Hey guys, I hope everybody is having a wonderful day today, and those which aren’t, are having a better day than the worse ones.

I’m sending hugs, cuddles and anything else you and your family may need in your time of need and want.

I was recently diagnosed (5th may) with invasive ductal carcinoma stage 2 Her2- positive and recently I have had a few bouts of dizziness, nauseous, migraines… feeling weak and things like that.

I am rather concerned about whether or not I should tell my doctor in charge on my appointment next week, as breast cancer affects the breast. Not exactly the brain…

(And yes, if you cannot tell, I also have a sprinkle of autism in the mix.)

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 5 days ago

So, recently I was diagnosed with invasive Ductal carcinoma stage 2, HER2- positive, and I have an appointment on the 17th of may for pre op tests and scans.

What do I need to know? What’s going to happen?

Also check in-

Hey everybody, how are you today? I hope everybody is having a good day, I’m sending hugs, cuddles and more.

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 6 days ago

Hey, I’m just checking in.

How is everybody today? I hope that everybody with and without cancer is having a good pain-free day.

Sending my love, hugs and cuddles to those which may need it today.

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 6 days ago

You get £10,000,000 (or your countries equivalent) every year for the rest of your life, but you can only drink one drink that you choose today.

For example you choose orange juice, you can only ever drink that, as much or as little as you want. Another example would be water.

You get to change the drink 3 times in your life, but you need a good enough reason to do so, and a panel of 6 strict judges will decide whether or not you can change it, and no you or anyone else cannot do anything to make them change their mind.

Rules-

Let’s say you choose your drink, you cannot just choose water so that you can mix in other ingredients, if you do so, you lose £9.8 million of that year’s £10,000,000 salary, if you go over, you go into debt.

It has to be a drink in the real world, not some magical drink that can cause you to have powers or something like that.

Are you saying yes to the deal, and what drink are you choosing.

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 6 days ago

I am unsure if this group is for women with it, or men, or both… but in my case I am a man, 22 years old, and recently I have been diagnosed with Invasive Ductal carcinoma Stage II.

I would love some advice, I’m autistic (not entirely severely, but I do have issues with communicating and things like that), with no family or friends to help with through this. I’m just curious about the process of it, will it end up hurting me? I have surgery coming up to have it removed… (Chemo afterwards). Then is chemo as bad as it looks like in movies?

(Sorry if I rambling on…. Kinda terrified about all of this.)

Any advice will be appreciated…

(Thank you in advance.)

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 6 days ago

A petty genie finds you, and gives you (age) wishes.

A petty genie finds you and gives you your age amount of wishes but what you wish for not only affects you, but it also affects everybody in a 0.3 mile radius from you.

How the age thing works- let’s say you are 42 years old, you have 42 wishes, whereas if you are 85, you get 85 wishes.

What are you wishing for?

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 7 days ago

I have recently been diagnosed with IDC, I have been thinking for the last 24 hours, without sleep, whether or not I’m going to be taking the treatment, and my mind is bouncing around the ‘What if’s’ and the what can go wrong and all that…

I’m heading towards the no I’m not taking it… because I’m absolutely terrified whether or not it’s going to work. I’m not sure… I looked up on ChatGPT and things like that, and it states that as I have an autoimmune disease, iron deficiency, it can be even riskier for me… it’s yeah…

I don’t know why I’m making the post, don’t hate me… I just wanted to vent about it I guess. I have cancer and going to die… I’m giving myself a few more days to really think about it, before telling the doctor… but I’m just… not really sure.

It’s like mental health, there are stages like- Deny, and acceptance and all that lot… it’s… complicated, but I’m sure many people in here know how it is.

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 8 days ago
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So, I’m a 22 year old patient, diagnosed yesterday (5th may 2026) with IDC II HER2 I’m on the autism spectrum, I have made a few posts talking about it (check my account if you like)

I’m just curious, whether or not anybody has any advice for me, I’m currently in decision stage in whether or not to take the surgery, chemotherapy. I was really just wanting to know peoples opinions on the matter as I’m also still in the ‘being terrified stage’ too.

I hope what I’m asking is okay here… if not I apologise and I hope that everybody here which has cancer or has had cancer, is having a better day today.

(I have read the rules, but I am rather confused at what ‘blogspam’ is… can someone please explain?)

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 8 days ago

I’m unsure whether or not if this is normal, or I should call my doctor right away, but the breast with the lump in, I don’t know how to word this- but it’s leaking white liquid?

Firstly, I’m sorry I’m autistic as stated in the previous post.

Second of all, I’m a man and my doctor never told me that it would be leaking… milk?

Should I be worrying, do I call for an emergency checkup with my doctor or…

(Sorry for worrying, I was diagnosed yesterday (5th may) and I’m still… off)

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 8 days ago

I am unsure if this group is for women with it, or men, or both… but in my case I am a man, 22 years old, and recently I have been diagnosed with Invasive Ductal carcinoma Stage II.

I would love some advice, I’m autistic (not entirely severely, but I do have issues with communicating and things like that), with no family or friends to help with through this. I’m just curious about the process of it, will it end up hurting me? I have surgery coming up to have it removed… (Chemo afterwards). Then is chemo as bad as it looks like in movies?

(Sorry if I rambling on…. Kinda terrified about all of this.)

Any advice will be appreciated…

(Thank you in advance.)

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 8 days ago

So, I have recently been diagnosed with something called Invasive ductal carcinoma stage II, I am a 22 year old male, autistic. I have never had cancer or anything as serious as this. I am rather worried about the new diagnoses, and as I’m without friends, and family… I don’t have any one to really ask for advice from.

(Hope the people on here don’t mind me asking for it on here… if it does- sorry)

Any advice?

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 8 days ago

What causes neurological disorders like Autism, depression, I mean I understand PTSD, it’s trauma, that I understand, but what I’m the brain causes Autism? Aspergers? And things like that…

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u/NeighborhoodDry9236 — 10 days ago