u/Necessary-Row6929

So I just confessed that I have a crush on them (and mentionted it's just a happy crush). He has a girlfriend btw. And so I don't have any intention on pursuing him, I just wanted to be honest and let him know. But is it a big deal? confessing to a guy who has a gf? Cos ik for sure that I'm NOT a threat lol. And I've never crossed boundaries either. So why result to him not answering my simple question with even just a "yes" or "no"?

We met at work and he was a genuinely good person and thought he was mature and a funny guy so i got attracted to him. It's been years since i felt this "butterflies" or "spark" with someone, so i decided to continue to see him as my "happy crush" & just something to make work-life a lil bit lighter too. It was weeks later that i found out he has a gf + months later that i learned he's 7yrs younger (wtf i honestly thought we're same age lol cos of the way he talk and present himself 🥲)

We're friends and have gotten a bit closer. Our convos just naturally flows and as an introvert who highly protect my own space and energy, i enjoy talking to him a lot. There are lots of times i could make a move and flirt tho, but i stayed on treating him as a friend and never cross boundaries. I just lowkey steal glances from afar & sometimes he looks at me too tho idk if there's meaning or im just delulu lol (but yeah i totally respect his gf too cos i dont wanna do anything that would be an issue or whatever)

Now i only have weeks left before my contract ends, and i wouldnt see him again anymore soon, like this will be the last moments... so i'm thinking of letting him know that i have a crush on him? Before we say goodbyes? Would that appear weird? I fear he might avoid me or might see me as a creep if he also knew the age gap? 💀